{"id":1644,"date":"2024-04-23T19:51:44","date_gmt":"2024-04-23T19:51:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/?page_id=1644"},"modified":"2024-04-23T19:51:44","modified_gmt":"2024-04-23T19:51:44","slug":"catisma-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/index.php\/catisma-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ATI\u015eMA 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row][vc_column][vc_empty_space height=&#8221;50px&#8221;][vc_column_text]<strong>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/strong><strong>\u00c7ATI\u015eMA 2<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta ki\u015filer aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n \u00fcstesinden gelmek nispeten kolayd\u0131r. Rol de\u011fi\u015fimleri, i\u00e7 monolog ve ayna tekni\u011fi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ara\u00e7lard\u0131r. \u0130\u00e7 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar tam fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, beceri, duyarl\u0131l\u0131k, spontanl\u0131k, yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k ve cesaret gerektirir &#8211; e\u011fer mizah varsa, \u00e7ok daha iyidir. Bir zorluk da, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 \u00e7ok k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede anlasan\u0131z bile, protagonistin her \u015feyi tek ba\u015f\u0131na \u00f6\u011frenmesine dikkat etmeniz gerekti\u011fidir. Y\u00f6netici, yeni bir ya\u015fam alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcn \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131ran ebe olur. Bu \u00e7ok sanc\u0131l\u0131 bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 olabilir ve kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131 y\u00f6neticinin yard\u0131m\u0131na ihtiya\u00e7 duyar. Ayr\u0131ca grubun t\u00fcm dikkati gereklidir. Herkes gerekti\u011finde bir rol, bir i\u015flev \u00fcstlenmeye haz\u0131r olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7o\u011fu durumda bir ayr\u0131l\u0131k s\u00f6z konusudur. Hayat devam eder ama bu ki\u015fi s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131p kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yas, su\u00e7luluk ya da pi\u015fmanl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6m\u00fclm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. Ayr\u0131l\u0131klar, \u00f6nceki ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n, neredeyse unutulmu\u015f eski yaralar\u0131n hissini harekete ge\u00e7irme e\u011filimindedir. B\u00f6yle bir oyun i\u00e7in yeterli zaman oldu\u011funa dair \u00f6nlem almak ak\u0131ll\u0131ca olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmadaki kal\u0131plar\u0131 yeniden tan\u0131mlamak i\u015fin yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek ise di\u011fer yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n modas\u0131 kesinlikle ge\u00e7mi\u015f olabilir ama eski bir kazak gibi \u00fczerlerinde tutulurlar. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 derin k\u00f6klere sahiptir, boyut olarak b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr, yirmilik di\u015f gibi yanl\u0131\u015f yerdedir ve kanal tedavisine ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r, b\u00f6ylece durmak bilmeyen a\u011fr\u0131 azalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Uzun bir aile gelene\u011fine sahip olanlar da var. Bu ek\u015fi ve sevimsiz bir g\u00f6revdir. \u00c7ocuklukta edinilen kal\u0131plar de\u011fi\u015fime kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6zellikle diren\u00e7lidir. Onlara kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6zel sab\u0131r ve empati yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. \u00c7at\u0131\u015fan taraflardan birinin ya da di\u011ferinin yan\u0131nda yer almamak her zaman kolay de\u011fildir. Ama y\u00f6netici \u00f6yle olmak zorundad\u0131r, bu bir g\u00fcven meselesidir. Tarafs\u0131zl\u0131k iyi bir muhakemeyi garanti eder. Her iki taraf\u0131n da bir hakeme ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir modelin bir mekanizma, bir makine olarak in\u015fa edilebilece\u011fi durumlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r ve protagonist hi\u00e7bir \u015fey \u00fcretmedi\u011fi ya da arzu edilmeyen bir \u015fey \u00fcretti\u011fi i\u00e7g\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fcne ula\u015fabilir. Biraz \u015fansla bir atl\u0131kar\u0131ncaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fclebilir. Atl\u0131kar\u0131ncan\u0131n olu\u015fturulmas\u0131nda m\u00fchendisli\u011fe g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc olarak yard\u0131m eden gruplar da olabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Ortak \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar \u00e7ok ciddiden d\u00fcped\u00fcz g\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00e7 olana kadar de\u011fi\u015fim g\u00f6sterebilir. Ancak dikkat! Biri di\u011ferini gizleyebilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u015e\u00f6yle ba\u015flayabilir: &#8220;\u015eekeri uzat\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ve \u015f\u00f6yle devam edebilir: &#8220;Kendin al ve sonunda b\u00fcy\u00fc!&#8221; G\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 akar ve partner sandalyeyi devirir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk yard\u0131m: Rol de\u011fi\u015fimi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130stedi\u011fin kadar oyun oynayabilirsin. Oyun gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ama her zaman gizli bir niyet vard\u0131r. Kazananlar ve kaybedenler vard\u0131r ve her zaman tekrarlan\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma, partnerlerden biri oyun oynamay\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Patern k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. \u015eimdi bir de\u011fi\u015fim \u015fans\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Eric Berne bu konuda bir kitap yazd\u0131. \u0130ncelemeye de\u011fer.[\/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space height=&#8221;40px&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n<\/section>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_empty_space height=&#8221;50px&#8221;][vc_column_text]\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-1644","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1644","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1644"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1644\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1645,"href":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1644\/revisions\/1645"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/psikodramamerkezi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1644"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}